When you have gone through a major breakup with the most important woman in your life, the first thing to hit is regret. Your mind gets stormed with what you would have done and should have done and all of that nonsense. There is no changing the past, but the mind reels for the science-fiction mentality in which that is possible. You want to unsay things that were said and say things that were not said all when it is too late to follow through. It is time to accept the inevitable and realize you are not getting that girlfriend back.
Or, is that really the deal? You know, many other men have found some very useful advice for their own situations when it comes to knowing how to get your ex girlfriend back. That means you can do the same. Look for some good tips online and follow through with the best that get you close to understanding her. You don’t need to know that is one of the most important things in this matter. You absolutely must understand her hopes, dreams and aspirations while being willing to help her with all of them.
Interestingly, you would think you should shower them with attention and follow that immediate heart tug to do everything you can to win them back as soon as possible. If only it worked that way, perhaps it would be easier. It is the other way around. You need to give this ex girlfriend space. Don’t dive at her or insist to see her. Give her a reasonable period of time to assimilate and then you can test out the waters as far as making real contact is concerned.
A man will have the most difficult time at this point. It seems like it is impossible to avoid reaching out to her. You want to believe it is the best thing to do. Whether she is playing some sort of game or not, you need to respect her space. Her actual space is as she defines it, not as you do. Hold tight. It could be a good wait before you see the desired results or any results at all. There is still much more to learn.